While I was falling asleep last night I found myself contemplating the differences in my husbands perspective and my perspective on life.
While this is very, very simplistic I came to the conclusion that one big difference is this
Doug's perspective - I am - therefore I have value.
My perspective - I have accomplished - therefore I have value.
A major downside to my perspective is how I view myself if I do not accomplish much of anything.
I think I need to change my perspective.